A short montage assembled from Peter Crone's coaching work across many sessions — clients describing fear of letting people down, the persona built on top of childhood emotional abuse, and the freedom found by releasing the script that runs underneath.
Transcript
my mom would just watch my dad yell at me and she would never say anything it's okay i know that's why i'm here in the right place it's hard i know i get it it's exhausting my parents separated when i was six months old so i waited till i was 36 37 38 to invest into a relationship because i was like i'm going to do this once and i want to get this right because i want to give myself that which i did not have i think i have a fear that i'm going to let people down i'm overwhelmed okay everybody wants my attention and i don't have enough time it bothers me sometimes i just feel that people always judge me and there's just a lot of misconceptions and yeah oh i can handle being treated like emotional abuse or anything that's gone on so look at the words you use like i can handle the emotional abuse and whatever it is and people might describe you it's like i know she's awesome she's tough would probably be a word and you look at your career like that speaks to somebody whose persona has become very robust but that doesn't speak to what's beneath it as i tell people just because it's familiar doesn't mean it's healthy right totally yeah parents separate your six months so even in the way that you described your reaction to that there's a lot of judgment right because you said i'm going to wait till i was 36 so that i can do it right yeah what's implied in that statement my child wasn't right i would assert you think that you feel the way that you feel because of everything that's happened no who you are today is because you keep dragging what happened with you into a new moment you haven't reconciled and actually let go of what happened but i want you to consider as dramatic as the thought of it is that what happened was precisely what was meant to happen in your life i've never thought about it like that because again what happened at that moment couldn't have happened any other way why because it didn't yeah right but i want you to embrace it right because there's a lot here for you you've got a massive heart but there's a little veil it's behind your eyes you can see it you can feel it that is a kid who felt that it was incumbent upon him to not let people down and that's way too much pressure for any human being to carry so if you're walking around as a human being with such a derogatory view of yourself then you have to manifest circumstances to reflect that until you start to recognize the view of yourself is not true am i going to find a physical label inside of you anywhere that says you're not enough no so now if it's not a truth if it's impossible like impossible for you to let people down what becomes available and we're seeing it on your face what becomes available for you as a being in the absence of the belief that you can let people down free like really feel that the dismissal that you experienced through your mum was a perfect energetic mirror for the soul incarnation that you have because that's what you've been doing to yourself totally and then you had the audacity no fault and i'm using a big word but you know to think it was because of her but now it's a blind spot so there's no blame for either of you but now there can be that joyous laugh of like wow that's just ridiculous right i want you to consider you wouldn't be here today you wouldn't be having this conversation with me if it weren't for the fact that your parents separated when you're six months and for that reason not only is it not wrong it's actually a blessing it's pretty epic that's pretty freaking epic it's just the beginning yeah thank you you are an incredible individual peter well thank you i feel very blessed for our paths to have crossed thank you for helping me of course thank you for being so open my dad drop the mic there isn't one but you can drop it hi i'm peter crone many of you know me as the mine architect i hope you were moved by those previous clips and maybe saw some possibility for yourself there's nothing as far as i'm 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