Peter Crone: What Your Gut Is Telling You

did you have an issue with the two colors well funny is should actually meant damn it so I'm just going to dive into my journey about how I found Peter it all started with a parasite I didn't want to leave the house at points I did a 100 hour fast and I really really love eating realizing the root cause was in the mind and the parasite taught me that I'm not saying girl and get yourself a parasite of course a build up of a few things led to my gut problems lock down I love people not having that really block me up uh obviously there's the father never accepting me and I can't get through to him I still can't really previously I was wishing I didn't have gut problems hoping they'd go away whereas Peter's words meant I didn't need to do that I became accepting of it and began to love myself again and this was the beginning of my journey to Freedom thanks very much for listening thank you I just want to acknowledge Betty for like for him to stand here and be the host and equally allow us all in to something that is very human right like you know how important is it may seem like so mundane but just a bowel movement you know I mean in ived we we it's part of my studies which is uh the healing arm of yoga we recognize that we we talk about stools all the time we say like the morning stool is like the morning newspaper it kind of tells you what's going on with your body right and so for me it's a very comfortable conversation and yet even that becomes taboo and so I just want to thank you for kicking this this off you know there's a lot of emotion there I know and especially with your dad so what's your dad's name uh James James so there's a human being walking around the planet called James and James has his view of everything like we all do and berti is part of that tapestry of how James sees the world and my assertion is whether James likes it or not he loves this human being he may not display it in a way that seems like love it wouldn't be like the Hallmark presentation of love it might you know have looked like belittling him or thinking he wasn't good enough or whatever or maybe even the occasional slap on the bottom um but he he nonetheless because he's human and this is his son that's an extension of his lineage and his DNA has no choice but to love this human being what would be in the way of that is James's view of himself and how things should be but what it's revealing for ber is the idea that he's not maybe lovable as he is and so that's his relationship with himself ironically makes sense yeah yeah once you look at it in terms of the two different people and the two different viewpoints yeah it kind of all makes sense because he's got this very narrow mind of like how he wants to be and how he wants his life to be and that's or how he wants me to be or whatever and that's just down here and I've got this like my mind's like well out here yeah okay so but now because this is beautiful right so we got to listen to what so he just declare James anyone here apart from the family know James okay great so a couple of you so for the 50 plus others of us we don't know James and he just said what he's got a narrow mind see we listen and especially as kids kids are very impressionable we listen as though what our parents our care providers are saying is Gospel but I never listen like that I know that everything that anyone is saying fundamentally is usually a Crocker [ __ ] and I still love them right he's just so now James who I've never met poor James he's not in the room and he's already been like declared to this 50 plus people that he's got this narrow mind it's like oh James is an [ __ ] I've I've never met him right so like James walks in here like he's going to like wow that's such a cold group nobody like thought this is all about being Limitless like wow it's James right what a dick right so so now you start to realize that your words are invariably so disparaging because it supports your narrative so really who has the narrow mind guy don't damn it damn it away with that one so James if we look at James and I feel into the energy of who he might be what do you think James as your dad feels without even knowing that you think he's got a narrow mind what must that be like for James uh I'm not sure he he realizes uh much the time I he maybe he doesn't but it's irrelevant because this is your life and this is your view and James's part of it what was the quote you started with from Wayne Dy if you change the way you look at things the things you look at change if you change the way you look at James kind of Rhymes yeah then James will change that's nice yeah so you you're under the impression that you need James I really want you to get this and apply your own James you can write it down whoever it's a person or a circumstance he's under the impression right now this is a guy full of love right clearly which you all are by the way you've just got varying degrees of like blockage to that and he's under the impression his brain is trying to convince him that he needs James to be different in order for him to be okay can you see that is it true that James needs to be different for you to be fully self-expressed nope but it occurs that way doesn't it yeah yeah I mean it seems like in order to make you know make the relationship work and make things flow I to not be myself and then I'm restricted yeah so this is powerful so you're under the impression that when in the presence of James that you have to behave differently give us an example of what that looks like I can't like get through to him because we don't relate on the same levels yeah we have topics that we can talk about which include Cricket um and that's probably like where we finish okay and I'm trying to like get through to him and have conversations that I like to have he's not interested in those conversations so I have to you know I can't say much because usually I'm relatively expressive okay so if we just listen to language right I have to and I can't say much right evidence seems to be the contrary he's saying a lot right I can't say much there's nothing wrong with his voice box right he's taking hot air and he's making sound and as far as I know most of you are comprehending it right so so you see we say things that become the constraint so you can start to see that if we have a view of an external circumstance in particularly a person that for us is in somehow a perceived threat then the system shut down even his gut right like this is how profound and how powerful your mind is that you're literally creating ongoingly your experience of Life on every level and so when he says I have to what's the feeling of have to and no one in my Mastermind can answer because we've done we've covered this the floor yeah sure like pressure right and again so you think so you listen and this is an invitation for all of you here because I want you to support one another so as you listen and you speak I want you to hear when people say I have to I must I need to I should these are all oppressive words that we use constant I should have done that right so now you've got a judgment about your history or I should be doing this I should be eating better I should be working out more so now you're in a state of Oppression but yet with this sort of idealized view of how how you should be behaving but it's really a continuation of a care provider that often taught you the language of constraint and so now we hear here like I can't speak up can't say what he wants it's not a truth it's an occurring it's how life like in the presence of James he feels like I can't but there's no like anyone holding a gun against his head and say well you can't say too much like you're limited to 500 words in front of James right right and then the have to like he feels he has to behave in a certain way everyone can Rel to this but it's a lie there's no have to so where the way that life occurs is that you think the constraint is over there with James right and you're starting to obviously by virtue of this conversation and what I asked you earlier to see that oh hang on a minute I changed the way I look at things the things I look at change James may or may not update his program my assertion is based on 20 plus years of doing this James will be a different human being in your presence when you're different nice now I've got countless examples of like there's someone in my Mastermind group right now and that's out of Interest I think it's five or six people just show a hand who's in my Mastermind currently holy [ __ ] balls two two four six seven wow thank you so we have a six-month program going on where I'm sharing like both doing something like this live but simultaneously helping everybody who's in the group understand what I'm doing and this is building up to you know help people really integrate these philosophies and this understanding into life right whether someone's a coach or a practitioner a parent a leader it doesn't really matter um so helping him to see you know that by his shift he can Inspire the shift in someone else and there's someone in The Mastermind who when I first spoke to her I was think it was about month three hadn't slept and not like as a exaggeration but wasn't sleeping and hadn't been sleeping for I don't know years a long time like and the Cascade of physiologic core issues you can imagine as somebody who's not sleeping it's just and one of her big concerns was a sibling who had a substance problem and she felt as the older sibling it was incumbent upon her to always take care of her sibling which was beautiful but you can imagine how like debilitating that is when somebody's doing whatever they're doing and that's their life so anyway what was so beautiful is that like I worked with her during the course of the Mastermind and then the month later you know she just actually was literally glowing like even people who are in the group sent me like wow she looks so beautiful I'm like well if you don't have sleep for a few years you look pretty rough so you know the relative Improvement was so stunning and the reason I'm sharing this is she said it's crazy my brother's now calling me and she was always the one checking because if you think about the energy like if I if I'm talking and I'm you know I get up and I sort of progressively am moving this way at some point for Bert you know I mean he's a loving guy but it could get a little bit it's a little bit like what's going on it's a little weird there's not much space 1029 so for her she recognized that by me actually allowing my brother to be who he is doesn't mean that she doesn't care but to give him space to have his own reality was actually the space that afforded him the ability to then miss her and reach out so it was just so profound I only she was finally sleep because she'd stopped this insan idea that she would you know had to take care of the whole world which is exhausting but then she realized wow actually by honoring someone's reality where they are and I often use the term right now if you really get that someone is where they are right now and it induces introduces the opportunity to recognize this isn't like permanent right that he right now has a drinking problem and I don't know what a drinking problem means right like it's a term like is his drinking problem six bottles of beer a day or is it three bottles of gin or I don't know so again that was her perspective reinforcing stress which he would feel he would obviously loved his older sister and D so you get that Vibe and you understand that her shift letting go of the idea that was up to her was incoming to her she was responsible gave him space to come forward so likewise with Bertie I had no idea that we're going to be talking about Bertie but you can all relate to this the fact that there's this human being called James who iert loves this man the way that love shows up though is not how he thinks it should or how he wants it so now we start to see the narrow mind is actually over here because he's saying his relationship to his dad and my guess is energetically his dad feels inadequate and feels dismissed probably feels disrespected probably doesn't feel like anyone cares about him and part of that energy is because his own child and maybe children George has got a couple of Tears in the eyes um are not accepting him for him and James is doing the best he can do based on the conditioning that he has and however he was raised right yeah like if I had a son and I found out he felt he couldn't speak in front of me do you know how devastated I'd be that you yeah know that would be a that's tough isn't it yeah so you got a human being who's doing the best he can within his limits but he's heartbroken and I'm not saying he's the poster child for what it looks like to be a dad but you're a new Evolution everyone who has kids here who has kids here I'm sure there's quite a few people amazing so I'll tell you right now your kids are so much smarter than you I hate to burst a bubble but they're just so much smarter stop telling them how to live their life and start listening you can you know tell them to stay away from the stove and don't walk into the road that's fine but think about like who here has an iPhone 10 does anyone know okay well get with the times but the point is each iteration of Technology we understand it's implied it's implicit that it's an it's an evolved version of whatever we had previously apply the same thing to Consciousness right so meaning that your children in terms of the lineage of Consciousness are more evolved because they're coming out later so as a parent if you just get that again they need the software but their operating system is far more advanced than yours so sure you can teach them how to play tennis or how to cook an egg or whatever it is but it's just a different way of looking at life so now James is an old version of the current Consciousness it's as redundant as me as looking at a spectrum whatever or you know whenever we had dial up and go that so narrow-minded so well that's where it was at the time right yeah see now look at this floor and what color do you think this floor is oh um I like a a royal beige it's pretty fancy so we're in England it's right it's not just beige and then what color would you say that is uh peasant peasant green a mold green green okay green great and now until I pointed out the floor did you have an issue with the two colors well funny you should actually me damn it why did I have to pick the anyway I'm going to I'm going to retract that and be like I just going to say h no I didn't notice no we didn't rehearse this I okay so aside from the tenant improvements that you're considering does it elicit an emotional response of anxiety or frustration um I feel this is actually very interesting because I feel like it would have done before I before I work okay that would have kind of like really wound me up but now I kind of just it is the way it is and it's got us own Beauty I think the floor is potentially not going to affect many people in the room I promise you no one noticed it until I brought it up but anyway so you said it is the way it is right and it doesn't impact the way that you currently live your life so say what I said to the best of your ability to repeat using the word floor the floor is what it is and it won't impact the world in my life okay now replace floor with James James is the way he is and it won't impact The Well of my life say it again a little louder for the people in the back James is the way he is and it won't impact the way I live my life oh thank you much so genuinely well that's uh yeah so where was the problem powerful yeah but where did you think the problem was James yeah who here first of all has got their own version of James great