Peter Crone: Your Most Important Priority in 2026 — Mastermind Excerpts

Hi, this is Peter Cron and you're listening to another episode of Finding Freedom. This episode is a little different. I'm very excited to share it with you because in this one you get to listen to three beautiful human beings go through their transformations. And these conversations are directly from my mastermind, my most powerful three-month offering where we go through a ton of theory of what it is to be human, to go from a different world of limitation, fear, suffering into the new world of freedom, love, and possibility. These three beautiful human beings have given us permission to share their vulnerabilities, their transformations. And so I hope you enjoy this very unique glimpse both into the lives of everyday humans, but also the powerful magic that happens inside of the mastermind. Enjoy this episode of finding freedom. MueL, hi. >> Hi. Oh, I am extremely nervous and my palm started sweating. >> That's okay. >> Really intensely. >> Yeah, that's okay. Hey, well, we appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. It's beautiful. >> I'll take a few breaths. It's really hard time. There's no hurry. There's no hurry. I'm glad you're honoring what you need. This is important, right? That's a great reflection of a human being who isn't pretending to be cool or that you need to speak immediately. Somebody can really learn from what Muel's doing right now. >> How old are you, Muel? Uh I'm 27 turning 28 just in a month. >> Okay. It's good to see young humans find this and whatever you had to do to make the commitment financially to show up. I just want to acknowledge you. That's actually a beautiful note and the thing that I uh wanted to touch on which is actually finances and which has been uh one of the biggest if not the biggest um challenges in life. Actually, the way I was able to join mastermind was me starting to ask for donations because like this was the only way and I was so excited to be part of this as I found your work basically in the beginning of this year and when I heard you speak I was like okay you're speaking exactly my language. a little bit about myself like uh I grew up in a family where both of my parents especially my mother was really worried about money and how to get toys to the kids and how to get the next month's bills paid. Uh also there was alcoholism. My father basically beating up my mother in front of me. >> Me getting hit by my father and by my grandmother. Mhm. >> And also my mother leaving when I was six to Ireland because the relationship with my father wasn't obviously harmonious. >> Yeah. >> Because of that I developed the coping mechanism to become a tough guy. I went to do boxing and uh why I wanted to make a lot of money was to save my parents >> and make a lot of money because I thought like it's incumbent on me and I'm responsible for their well-being. >> Yeah. And um what I'm fully not accepting in myself is uh is that I I'm my experiences basically that I'm homosexual. It's not the truth. I'm aware of that. But in this frame where I've grew up, what I've heard that like uh homosexuals are to beat up with baseball bats and like I've dealt with that for a few years already. So me able to express it in front of so many people obviously is already a huge transformation. >> Yeah. So thank you for your courage and your just to confirm that this space as I said at the beginning is very safe. We see you. We hear you. We we hold you. And I want to assert that as a group we love you. So no matter what your preferences, choices are, orientations, it's all welcome. So just want to confirm that. Thank you. I appreciate it. Um, and I have recently discovered that I collapse my sense of worth with money. >> Yeah. >> And I have all these insights, but there is still something that I don't see. >> Got it. Amazing. Okay. The first thing that occurs to me as I listen to you is how brilliant you are. What do you hear when I say that or what do you experience? It's very uh interesting that you say that because I tend to compare myself a lot with others and yeah because I'm I'm not as articulate. I'm not as good. I'm not hurt. People don't understand me like this kind of conversation. So when you say >> like it doesn't align with my view of myself. >> Good. Well, then I know I'm on track because the view you have of yourself is pretty lousy and it's not a accurate reflection of the being that you are. So, just as you said earlier that you're still struggling with finances is what you said. They were your words. Whatever your finances are and we don't know, you didn't need to share. You could be in debt, you could be minus, you could be having 10, you know, euros in your bank, whatever. Like whatever it is, could your finances at this moment be different than the way they are? >> Couldn't, right? They're just the way they are. >> Yeah. >> So, that shows us that you're not struggling with your finances because in reality, they're the way they are. >> That's true. >> I'll put it this way. If I suddenly put, you know, €200,000,500,000 euros or dollars into your bank account, how would Mikuel feel? >> There you go. You answered the question. >> Relaxed. >> Exactly. So, what I want you to understand, Muel, is if your experience is relief, then what must that mean? Was there before >> tension? >> Correct. Amazing. You're tracking perfectly. So I want you to consider if a human being's physiology is in a state of tension. When you have this perception of a shift in circumstances that is beneficial or what you want, you get relief. Right? That's just what happened. What we want to discover is why are you in a state of tension? Why must somebody be in a state of tension? What must be their view of life? >> That I'm not going to be okay. >> That's part of it for sure. Yeah, good job. And if you're not going to be okay, what is the emotion that goes with that? We've seen it with already with Melissa and TJ >> and Elena. Fear. And fear emotionally creates disease, which physiologically is tension. So the fear that you feel is reflective of the limitation that you're living in, which is in the realm of survival. So, you're collapsing survival with money, which for a human being makes perfect sense. It's just not a truth. There are people living out in the woods who just literally are living off life with no money. Not saying it's a nice way to live, and it's certainly not what you're destined for. You're great. You're an entrepreneur. You're brilliant. I have no doubt that you're going to have a very successful life. That's my view of your future. But you can't access it very easily or readily from I'm not going to be okay. Right? So your view of the future is worst case scenario which creates tension and fear which is self-fulfilling. Right? So if I had told you that okay you just started coaching at the beginning of summer but by the end of the year you have enough clients end of the year. So, it's not now, but within four months, you know, you're 28 and you're making at least 90,000 a year from coaching, and that's the future you're stepping into. We can start to see it on the corner of your mouth, but how would that feel? >> That would be awesome. >> Yeah. So now this energy of awesome I promise you is your true nature on the other side of the belief that you're not going to be okay. Which this that would be awesome or fear and tension do you think is the best precursor to success? Which of those two? >> The awesome >> Yeah. >> part. >> Yeah. The awesome part. And this is why it's a dissolution. So what I want you to understand is sitting on your bed or chair shaking, which is great. Your body's letting go of tension, right? >> Yeah. It's pretty crazy. >> Yeah. So this is like you see this in the wild, right? National Geographic, when an animal has been chased by a lion, they go into fight or flight. It's just for you, you've been in that state for so long, your body hasn't been able to. It's okay. This is beautiful. Don't resist it. You're a sweetheart. This is great. This takes a lot of courage. We're here with you. Just let it feel it all. This right now, I want you to listen to my words. You can keep your eyes shut. What you're doing is abundance. The experience you're having is abundance. This is not wrong. This is power in action. Don't resist one part of what you're feeling. Okay? Whatever you need to do, shout, scream, shake. It's okay. This is you tapping into your nature of abundance and you're doing it beautifully and very, very quickly. You've been in a consistent state of fight or flight. There you go. Now, we're tapping into joy on the other side. Amazing. Okay. This is your nature. We're letting go of an old paradigm that you've been living in for 25 years that doesn't serve you. You're not not safe. I'm just going to speak to your subconscious. You're not not going to be okay. I get it from the way that you were brought up and the things that you saw, particularly what your father did to your mom, no child should see, but that's got nothing to do with your incarnation. That's got nothing to do with what's going to happen to you. You are held. You are seen. You are heard. Nothing bad is going to happen to you. And I really want you to hear what I'm about to say. It's not all up to you. I know that's how it seemed, including even having to take care of your parents. It's way too much pressure for any human being, particularly a 27y old. It is not up to you to take care of your parents. Your only responsibility and commitment in this life is to be free and to be the immense amount of joy that is your birthright. That is your only commitment. From that state of freedom and joy, you will feed the world if you want. But as long as you're oppressed inside of the prison thinking that you're not safe, you're not going to be okay, and it's all up to you, you can't help anybody. Okay. >> Yeah. Just take a couple of big breaths. Amazing. Is it a truth that you're not going to be okay, my friend? Is it an absolute truth that you're not going to be okay? No, it's not. >> Is it an absolute truth that everything is up to you and you alone? >> Oh, I feel resistance, but it's not true. >> Yeah, that's okay. Resistance is fine. That's what's called residual self-image. It's the old part of you that doesn't want to go anywhere. >> It's not a truth. Give us some evidence that you shared in terms of how you got into this mastermind that is proof that it's not all up to you. How did you get into this mastermind? >> I asked for donations. >> Yeah. Take away the I asked. What did you receive? >> I received donations. >> There you go. Different energy. >> Yet I feel an im immens amount of like unworthiness but I just made space for it. Yeah, great. Yeah, the space was there. There was just a story of you not deserving or not being good enough to receive or being something bad that doesn't deserve that was in the way of the giving that people love to express which is you receiving. So there's perfect real life example that it's not all up to you because you're surrounded by people who wanted to contribute to you which is life. Forget about people, life holding you. So the illusion is that it's all up to you and that you're not held. That's the lie. So in ways that you can't see, Macau, that you're not meant to see. How would it feel if you know, in ways that you can't see and you'll never see until it happens, you're held. How would that feel? it would feel great. Um, something popped up regarding that regarding with business where I get anxiousness. It's like yes, life has got my back but like like how the hell should I build those like funnels which bring me in money. So like etc. When when I'm not able to even do that and I don't have any skills in that. >> Yeah. So any is a strong word. You probably have some. It might not be like an expert, but it's not about that. It's about you realizing it's not what you're looking to get from life. It's looking for the opportunity to share yourself. I promise you in the last 20 minutes, a number of people who've shed a tear, who have felt like they just wanted to hold you, who have seen something about themselves because of you, had nothing to do with your capacity to build a funnel. and everything to do with your ability to be authentic with us. That's why I said what you're experiencing right now is abundance. You're sharing what it is to be an abundant human being who is so courageous, especially at your age, to share themselves so authentically. So if money was measured in your ability to touch people's lives, you just made hundreds of thousands of dollars. Do you see the difference? >> Yeah. >> It's not about being good at creating a funnel. This is we're we're in the realm of energy, not what it means to be a good marketer. I pretty much suck at marketing. I just tell a story and I share. And typically I'm sharing from the beautiful masterminders clips of me working with people. And if peopl --- Because uh in in the past I I believe that uh money equals love and money equals happiness and money equals freedom. But by now I've experienced that even when I'm in depth I'm I've never been more in peace and more happier and more freer than I am right now. But obviously there are deeper layers. >> Yeah. >> To be honest. >> Yeah. Amazing. You're such a sweetheart. So can you start to see that true worth and true abundance has got nothing to do with numbers in a bank account. That's helpful and we'll get into the practicalities of it when we talk about money. But true abundance is you loving and accepting you. >> Yes. >> So energetically when you really get that you hit the jackpot. >> Yeah. >> Which energetically is the precursor to life starting to meet you there. So there's two things I want you to understand, Muel. one, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. There has just been the story that there's something wrong with you and you use the evidence of a sexual preference to confirm that. But the truth is there's nothing wrong with you. One, when you think there's something wrong with you, what is your tendency relative to life? meaning how might you behave? Are you very out there? Are you very available? Are you very self-expressed? Or are you more withdrawn and maybe a little keep to yourself? >> The second part. Yes, definitely. >> For sure. Makes sense, right? >> Yeah. >> I'm leading the witness. So now I want you to understand in terms of business, you might have the greatest product in the world, but energetically your design because of your programming is to hide. How big of a business do you have? No matter how good your product is, if who you are is somebody that hides. >> Well, I'm not basically available. So how good is your business? >> Not very good. >> Okay. So that's another gift for you to understand the dynamic of living in a world where there's something wrong with you which behaviorally as a coping strategy which makes sense and it's smart is hide and I really acknowledge you in an open public forum and sharing that took a lot of courage but that was the first step to you becoming available and availability is a necessary precursor to any kind of relationship. ship, romantic, personal or professional business. Do you see that? >> Yeah. And this is literally the the thing what I've been the most afraid of. For example, just recently, I got an insight uh with my partner where I feel that I'm not loved and I'm unimportant. And long story short, I made space for it. I felt it and it dissolved. And as it was such a powerful insight, I I basically created a reel about that so I would be able to share it on Instagram. But obviously I didn't share it because the fear is so great that what if these old people who I used to hang out with see it, they will know and I will be ridiculed and I will be attacked and they will be like whatever those fears are. So yeah, I I I see that. >> Amazing folks. I really hope you just follow what he said because it is at the core of everyone's suffering in relationships because what he's saying is all of these old friends might see it. So we get the ridicule that he is worried about experiencing is already his relationship with himself. You're not worried what they will say. You're worried what you already believe about yourself. And what I really want you to understand, my friend, is if they ridicule you or make fun of you or judge you, they aren't friends anyway. So to try and protect a relationship that's not founded in love is an illusion. >> Do you see? >> Yeah. have I haven't really thought about it from that perspective. I think it's really foreign right now. It takes me a little bit time to like >> Yeah. go Oh, hang on a minute. This guy makes a bit of sense. >> Not my first rodeo. >> Yeah. The thing I want you to get is you're not worried about other people ridiculing you. You're already living in a world of judgment of yourself. And that judgment can only exist because of the programming. >> Again, friends, bullying, mom, dad, all of it contributes. It doesn't matter. You're smart enough to see you have a story that there's something wrong with you, and there isn't. There's just nothing. There's the story that there's something wrong with you. So, the only thing potentially wrong with you is that you believe there's something wrong with you. Yeah. Yeah. >> And when you start to discover, and folks, this is self-love, is that you start to discover the part of you that judges yourself. And it's okay. You make space for it, but you don't let it define you. It's okay. And I'm not saying that you should encourage ridicule. I'm not saying that you should put yourself in uncomfortable situations. What I'm saying is that when you're ready, it doesn't matter what you say, you won't be uncomfortable because you're a force of nature, my friend, and you can let people think whatever they want to think. It's okay. So, thank you for the gift that you are to this mastermind. I'm grateful that you took a leap of faith and you asked people to donate so not only could you experience the gift of contribution to you, but that then you could pay that forward and be a contribution to us. >> You're very very welcome here and I'm very grateful that for whatever reasons we're having this conversation. Thank you for choosing me of all of these people. >> Yeah, >> I don't want to die. I'm fear that >> I don't want to leave the legacy of my father. My father and my brother both died at age of 55. I'm 51 now. Both of them five years before that preceded like very traumatic experience for my dad. he was excluded, demoted from uh the uh communist party and he lost his job just because he was reading Bible. So, and we like went from riches to poor overnight. My brother similar to that the war in Ukraine started and he had to leave Detsk and move to another part of country leaving everything behind and both of them five years later they died in for me traumatic experience what my son died suddenly and now I'm looking into like four more years to live because I mean I feel like it is like it is more like at this point doesn't matter what I do if I have this karma to carry and I don't want to and I have one more son to who is who is alive and I'm thinking if I don't break through this if I don't break this karma he's going to like leave this legacy of his grandfather and his uncle because I mean if it's if it's if it's karma it's unavoidable and I don't know what else to do what other changes to make in my life to to get rid of this to to set free. I feel like what you describe like rubber band. This is how I feel. It doesn't matter how far I'm moving, it still pulls me back. So, >> yeah, I get it. It's lovely to be with you and thank you for your courage and I'm sorry about your son. So, when you say suddenly, it wasn't like was it a fatal accident or what happened? >> It was a it was fentanyl laced cocaine. >> Okay. >> I was going through like is it my fault as a mom? I didn't do something that was there and I feel like it might still there but like I from >> for sure >> from many things I know it happened the way it happened. It was his it was his course of life and it was him like maybe graciously sign up for this contract to show me something and what happened. >> For sure. Amazing. I'm glad you understand that intellectually. But folks, I hope you can hear this, especially you women and especially you mothers. It's very clear to me that there is a component still that's residual still sitting there where there's a lot of fault, right? So if maybe she had been a different mother, maybe she had intervened, maybe if she'd been whatever, fill in the blank of what she could have done to avoid him using or going back, right? Something like that. Relia. Yeah. What is it like? Because I understand that you get it mentally, but it's not out of your system. This is the rubber band. What is it like for you to carry the burden of thinking that it's your fault that your son died? >> I feel like I don't leave. I feel like I constantly wait for something bad to happen. It's like it's like it's shrinking. It's like I cannot take a big breath. I constantly worry what's going on with my oldest son, what's going on with me. like I have like little ache here. Oh, it's it's probably my liver is failing and I feel like ready. It's it's constant. It's I'm not leaving. I'm I'm It's almost like existing and I don't know. It's like I'm tippy toeing through life. This is how it feels. It's it's >> Yeah. Yeah. So folks, I want you to get this is like as I said in the continuum of fear from the subtlest which is mild apprehension to what she's actually experienced she does a great job of masking it but is terror because not only is it well she should have done something with her son but now because of the heritage that she's in you know with her dad and her uncle 55 years she's got four years to live it's like the panic that she now has to do something to avoid that happening, right? Can you feel that for everybody else? So, Yolena, I get it. I really have nothing but love and compassion for you. As you know, you're a sweetheart. You're a force of nature, and uh I'm committed to helping you find that last shred of rubber that just needs to be cut. So, okay, let's start with the simpler stuff. So when your son passed, how old was he? >> 24. >> 24. Okay. And so he passed with some fentinyl lace cocaine. He had had a history of some sort of drug use. As you look back as a 24 year old man making whatever choices he made, could his passing be any different in the way that it happened or when it happened? >> No. >> No. Just as right now, where where are you based now? Where do you live? >> I live in Arizona. Tucson, Arizona. >> Tucson, Arizona. Okay, great. So, it's still middle of the afternoon. If you were to go outside and if I to say, uh, Yolena, will you point to where the sun is? And you point and see the sun. And then if I told you, should the sun be anywhere different than where it is? >> What would you answer? No. >> No. >> No. Because it is where it is. and you wouldn't even have that thought. Like it doesn't even make sense. So folks, I'm using the mundane to explain the profound, which in this case is sad. I don't wish it. I understand that it hurts. But for her 24 year old son, if we had his genetic makeup, his karma, everything that he heard from his parents, everything that he experienced from his parents, everything that he learned at school, the first love he had, the first person he beat up, the first person who beat him up, the first win he had, the first all of that created his conditioning that led to somewhere at a party, someone said, "Do you want to try weed?" Sure. The next party try cocaine. I don't know. The genesis of his experience of life could not have been different. Period. Can we have compassion? Can we have sadness? Could we wish it was different? Of course, that's human. Doesn't change it. And I know this is the hard tough love part of understanding life that things can't be different than the way they are. So Yolena, your fear, as much as we understand it and have compassion for it, is all part of the same fear that your dad, your uncle, your son were living in. >> Huh. So I don't have to carry the whole load of it. >> I not only do you not have to, I strongly suggest you don't. Do you categorically know? Listen to me. Yes or no. Do you categorically know that you're going to die at 55? >> No, I don't. I have no clue. >> You can die now. >> You could die at 53. Exactly. You spoiled my joke. >> You're like, "Fuck it." >> Yeah. >> Sorry. >> No, no, I'm kidding. That was great. The point is, you have no clue about the future, right? We don't know what's going to happen. Your suffering is not because of the fear of dying at 55, but because of the thought now at 51 that you might die. That's what's hurting you. That's the crazy part. The thing that's killing you because it's suffocating you is the perspective that you're going to die when you're 55. >> Yeah. That is a very confining thought. >> What if I told you you lived to 98 years old? >> I love that. I'll take it. >> I said something in 4 seconds. Do you see a whole disposition change? This is what I did with a a professional basketball player. He had the worst free throw shooting average in the league, 37%. For those you don't follow basketball, doesn't matter. But the average is about 75%. So he was less than half or about half. Embarrassing. He's being paid $19 million a year to perform and he can't make a free throw or at least he makes two out of 10 when the average is seven and a half. I sat in his kitchen and I said, "So when you stand up at the free throw line, what do you think?" He said, "Well, I'm trying not to miss." Makes sense, right? Because his past hurts informing future fear. So, he's trying not to do what he's used to doing, which hurt, --- o 120. I don't know. You know what becomes available now for you? If that's gone, if you have no conversation about a future that you're oblivious to, that is bad. Don't you just don't know. Who could Elena be now? And how could you live? I feel like I'm like melting instead of being like this like constrict of icicle. I feel like I'm melting. I don't need to be anything. I just I can just be. >> Yeah. >> Feel it. Don't resist it. You've been waiting to feel this sense of freedom for a long time. I have space to breathe into. There is no restriction and there is room to breathe more. >> That's called to be inspired, to inspire, to live, to take in life. I'm so excited that you were willing to revisit something that was obviously a very painful experience and with the absolute grace that only someone like you as a mother could really express to realize yeah I love my son and part of me wishes I'd done more but in ways that you don't understand that was his journey just as my mom died when I was seven and my dad died when I was 17. Whilst I could fight life all day and say that's just really not fair for a seven-year-old's mom to die, like no one would argue with that. All I have is gratitude for the fact that that was my mom for seven years. An immense gratitude that I had a father that I had for 17. Even though the numbers might not add up, the soul contracts and the agreements and the experiences we shared are timeless. And Elena, what I want you to understand is that when you really get what I feel you're getting right now, you transcend time. It's got nothing to do with four years or 40 years. It's got to do with presence now. >> Do you see that? >> Cuz there are people around you, obviously this group, myself included, who absolutely love that you're here. They love that you're a being in this time, in this lifetime with us. And I know you feel the same for so many. And my invitation to you is to not miss those moments of connection. >> Oh, no more messing up in life, you know. No more. I just I I I'm present. I'm here. Um that's that's that's that's this is my goal. >> Yeah. So beautiful. Welcome to here which is the most profound and powerful place to live. Welcome to freedom my dear. Enjoy the new found breath. Enjoy the new prana going through your body. >> And if your shoulder hurts for a minute okay so what? >> Thank you. as I've shared with sometimes the more latter parts of the modules in mastermind and we'll get in more into this as we go but I really want you to understand folks and it's early for many of you who you know just starting to feel some of this don't expect to feel the joy in Elena's God it's okay you'll get yours when you're ready but one of the biggest obstacles to freedom and joy is you holding back your capacity to love. So, if there's only one thing you take from today, and I hope there's multitude, whoever in your life right now means something to you, is important to you, is somebody that you genuinely care about, and especially if it's somebody you've been a bit stingy with or you've held your love back from because you got some story that they hurt you in the past, get over it. Tell them how much you love them tonight, cuz you're the beneficiary of that expression of love. for my three and a half month deep dive with over 30 hours of theory and live coaching all led directly by me. Please check out my mastermind at peterchone.com/mastermind. And back to the conversation. >> Hi. >> Hi. Sorry, there's a little puppy here. >> Hi puppy. >> This is Jane. >> James. Hello James. Very regal. Yes. >> Firstly, I do really feel like I'm a new person. Start of the mastermind to now. >> Amazing. Um, >> James is confirming. He's like, "Yeah, >> yeah. My whole life has like changed. Like I'm really in the process of creation. I can really feel that. Like my energy is so different. I didn't know I could feel like this on a consistent basis like ever." >> Amazing. Um, I guess what I'm putting forward is the two areas in life that I still want to improve on is that I don't have an intimate relationship, which is something I feel like I am becoming really available for. Like there's so much space being created, >> right? >> And the second thing is that two weeks ago, I fully stepped into my business like solo. So, I still worked for some other practices. I canceled that. I've had two months off. I've got a new practice space. Furnished it. Got that done. Started. Yeah. Two weeks ago. Got the puppy as well. Puppy's born on my birthday, by the way, of all things. >> It's all going like really well. But I've had like a really tough year with a lot of like grief and saying goodbye to like friendships and >> things not working out in the way that I thought they would. >> Yeah, that's okay. So, I guess my question is that I am still looking for like where's maybe a blind spot of mine that I'm not fully expressing myself. Like there's just like that little bit of like holding back. >> Okay. Amazing. So, super articulate and congratulations on everything, your new space and the courage it takes, you know, I don't want to be cliche, but especially as a woman to start her own business like that, you know, like that's really beautiful. So, congrats. with regards to finances and partnership like let's start with you know you didn't know that you could feel this way for the last two weeks like if you were to describe the feeling what is it >> so I finally feel like my nervous system is starting to be more regulated I definitely could see that I would be in that hypervigilant state always reading the room very sensitive very intuitive and so like now it's it's like I don't even need a nap in the afternoon. Like there's a just a steadiness. I'm not taking I've I I wasn't drinking like caffeine anyways, but I always felt like I wish I could, but I don't even need it. There's like this certain level of >> like peace. Like obviously I have still my moments and I still have moments where I get triggered and then there's that old imprint that kind of gets activated but I'm super quickly recovered from that which I with one night sleep I'm sleeping really well very deep having a lot of dreams like integration dreams I can sense that happening >> okay well I'm you know this is uh music to my ears and you know why I do what I do and have this mastermind so we get these sort of reflections and obviously especially as I haven't even spoken to you. So, the fact that you're reaping the benefits of the mastermind and all the other beautiful people I get to coach, you know, it's beautiful and it's a testament that this container works right in the way that it's designed. Um, so I love that. So, you're well on your way and energetically, you know, the fact that you said some things, grief, partners, relationships ending to me is um I don't want to be flippant, but it's a good sign, right? because those were all associated with the previous [ __ ] that you were right. So >> I'm not saying that's easy, but it really is still a reflection of your evolution. Right. So what we're dealing with here again as you confirmed is the death of the idea of you who arrived and that's an ongoing process, right? Like I like to continually die to whatever degree I can to be born again. So all of the things that I hear are beautiful and confirmation that you're actually in a great place. So the subtle quote unquote, you know, you're trying to figure it out is in the realm of what you just said about like if your nervous system was a little bit highly strong or you got a little tired from vigilance, wanting to work it out and needed naps, what does that point to? It's old. It's residual, but it's still what I want to help you with. What would have that meant about you as a person? Like what what was that? Because it's a fear, right? >> Yeah. >> But what was the fear about? >> It was me having to work hard to do something to to be good enough or to to produce. So it's it's obviously an unsafety. >> There's a component of that. Yeah. >> Yeah. But for you it's not so much safety now because you're sleeping well you you're not exhausted. >> So where is the absence of safety? Like so anxiety and worry in terms of time where is that actually associated? >> Anxiet it's in the future. Yeah. >> Exactly. Right. >> Yeah. So that's the last notch often times for people who've done work and have started to get through these different layers of constraint is okay you dealt with you know maybe not feeling safe where you are you've dealt with you know the fact that maybe you're not lovable for who you are or you know whatever the constraints you've seen but what I hear is everything's going great you've got nothing but evidence okay two weeks versus you know two or three decades But you are your trajectory is amazing, right? >> So when we're on a great trajectory and it's like, okay, yeah, but now finance, abundance relationship what are you what are you focused on? >> Yeah, there's a little bit of lack that I'm focused on. >> Yeah. >> In in the f like I'm there's a fear of lack in the future that I'm focused on. And then at times I I can then catch myself doing that and then I go no back into trust >> and I try to just like exhale. But it's I feel like that's where I'm flip-flopping because then it's like oh my bank account's like going lower >> and yes there's like money coming in because of my clients like coming in and I'm like just trust trust trust but it's like I don't want it to be that mantra where I'm kind of >> No, you're doing great. I mean this is all very advanced and this is appropriate for modulate the mastermind. So the trust right now is being used as a um as a form of medicine, right? Like meaning your trust is being prescribed. It's not inherent. >> Yeah. >> So if you're having to apply the trust, what is the main constraint that everybody has about the future? >> I'm not >> I'm not going to be okay. Yeah, >> James just confirmed >> right on queue. Did you hear that? >> Like drop in. He's like >> he's like woof. Yep. Been waiting you for you to [ __ ] get that so you can chill and play with me. >> Yeah, 100%. >> Thank you. Confirmed again. That's all he wants. He likes >> He's like, "This guy's good. This guy knows. I If you know that you're going to be okay, you can spend more time with me and less worried about your bank account." >> 100%. Yeah. Yeah. So, do you see so just looking back briefly, I don't think it's heavy, but where in your childhood did you have evidence that you had to worry about what was going to happen? >> Yeah. So, I actually dove back into that to prepare for this. Um, and I just looked at all the things that happened. So, for me, what I see is that there's like been moments where life just took an instant turn. >> Perfect. Unpredictable. Yeah. >> Very unpredictable out of nowhere. So, like the first one happened when I was 5 years old and funnily enough like I got bitten by a dog and I don't know if you can see but I have permanent scarring on like my nose was off like it was gone. So, it's like for the rest of my life that was like evidence of like life can just change within an instant. >> Um >> which means you should better look out. >> Exactly. >> Yeah. >> Um and then another bit of evidence would be that um like my brother got hit on his bike. I'm I live in the Netherlands, so obviously we cycle everywhere. He got hit when I was when I was 13. He was he was 10 and we didn't know if he was going to make it. Um, so that was like one of those like complete >> experiences. And then out of nowhere when I was 17, my parents got divorced. So that was another moment. And then in 2020, my dad had a heart attack and never saw that coming. He's super healthy. So it's like all these it's like I expect these either phone calls or like moments like I can feel my system like >> Yeah. the anticipation of Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. Perfectly describing the default setting of a human being which is the the continuation of survival which is we're not sure if we're going to be okay. >> Yeah. >> But I want you to get that none of us are sure if we're going to be okay. So simple, >> right? Yeah. >> Yeah. >> So rather being defined by the fear, you want to recognize the reality. >> Like that's that's inbuilt in the game. It's like saying, "Yeah, I'll jump in the ocean, but I don't want to get wet." It's like, I'm going to be human. I'm going to incarnate, but I want to make sure that everything works out. >> Yeah. Yeah. That's that's been me for the last 30 years. Definitely. >> No, I I I I know. and probably everybody else here. It's just you're using, you know, your current circumstances of evidence for this particular constraint, right? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. So, is it a truth? Do you absolutely know though that you're not going to be okay? >> No. >> No, you don't. And this is where my whole journey began. You know, I was heartbroken by the end of a relationship --- it's all going to work out. You know, we want to come back a little bit just to neutral, I don't know, but I'm committed. I'm creating. I'm confident. I'm powerful. You know, that's that energy of like you said, like less reactive, more creative. But creative can it it's like artistry, right? Like creative your business. You got a new space, you got the furniture, you know, you you you're creating something as a possibility. and we don't know to what degree there might be some deviations along the way. It's still creative. You're still committed to something. You might find out that you suddenly get an influx of customers, clients in the next two weeks and you can't manage it. So now the adaptation is I need help. I need to hire someone or you know it's good but it's still stressful because now I need help. You know what I mean? It's like >> Yeah. It's like new new possibilities to grow because of that happening >> constantly. >> Yeah. >> And that's the death and the birth, >> right? That's the constant initiation because at some point your practice grows. Now you get asked to go on a podcast. Now you get asked to show on a local TV show about your methodology. one of your clients happens to be a publisher and they're like, "Hey, if I was to give you 50,000 euros to write a book, would you, you know, and it's like, so they're all good things, but you're still going to experience them as stress." And then the next version of like, oh [ __ ] will my book sell any? Will anyone like my, you know, it's the same thing. It's just refinement constantly of our ability to take each of these constraints to different levels without being defined by them. >> Yeah. So it's like the freedom to adapt at every level and to experience that like yeah sense of freedom and I I feel like every level you know asks for a quicker adaptation as it grows because you don't have the time to sit around and wait. Is that right? Like is it >> to a certain degree it's just more subtle. more refined, you know, like so as a very crass analogy and I don't know if you even care or know anything about golf, but you know, I use sports because it's very visual, right? People can understand. So, you know, let's say you meet someone in the romantic realm, like that's taken care of. You don't have to worry about it, right? But let's say in 3 weeks you meet a dude, you're riding a bike, you're stopping at a light in Holland somewhere and you know, you get chatting and like, "Oh my god." And it's like cute. You feel some chemistry and he happens to like golf, right? And so as one of your first or second dates, he's like, "Do you want to go to the driving range?" You know, which a guy might do, you know, and like go and hit some balls. You're like, "Well, I've never played. Don't worry, I'll teach you." So your new level at that moment will be you just hope, you know, especially if you like the guy, that you hit the ball because otherwise you're going to be embarrassed. Right? That's your level of focus is I just would at least want to connect, right? And then if you enjoy it and then you get better and it's like, oh, you're getting better but you're shanking it or you slice it or it's not great. So now you get a different level of refinement which is still frustrating. Now you're not worried about trying to hit the ball. Now you want to hit it in a particular direction. And then you get that down and now you want to hit it a bit harder or you want to put a bit more spin on it. And then you want to learn, well each of these clubs goes a different distance. Do you see? you're still playing golf but from a different perspective until like I work with the best golfers in the world and their whole level of relationship to how they play golf like then the idea of like not hitting the ball isn't even in their sphere. They're they're they're they're down to the level of like specity and refinement of they want to put it just slightly right of the pin cuz they know that the way the ball's going to spin is that it's going to come back this way. Right. So, do you see the different levels of precision? >> Yeah. >> And so that's what happens in the expansion even here. Like there's people who've done the mastermind as I said three, four, five times. So their level of engagement with me is already at a whole other level other set of mastery. Whereas for someone here, they're like, you know, it's a it's a big deal to put their hand up as we've seen with some people, right? It's a bigger deal for some of them to just realize that they're in an abusive relationship. They need to go. It's a bigger deal for some of them to say, I really need to call my dad and apologize for hating him for 15 years. or you know before they get into the the real nuances of having a loving connection that's not based in hatred and blame right so so you've you've lifted the big heavy blocks right you know some of your relationships falling apart I know on the surface doesn't seem good but that's actually an extension of you growing into a new you started a business you're investing in yourself this is amazing but you're going to come up against new levels of refinement right especially as your business grows Whereas now it's like, oh [ __ ] I'm actually making quite a lot of money. Now I have to be smart because I'm paying too much tax. So if I actually hire someone, I can write that off as their salary and maybe I open up another clinic so I have more expenses so that I offset some of the income. Do you know what I mean? It just becomes another level of the game. >> Yeah. And then it becomes like fun to play that game because you're actually playing. You're in the field. You're doing it. That's Yeah, it's again >> exactly >> I'm Yeah, I can see I can feel it. >> Yeah, because let's say you're going to meet someone, especially from this energy attractive buoyant alive free. It's so attractive, right? But then you're going to meet someone and then you're going to come up against, oh, I really like this person or actually I don't really like this person, but they really like me and I'm a bit scared to hurt them. You just see it's another level of constraint and we just are going to keep refining self-expression or then you really love this person and you've been with them for a year or now you've been a year and a half and it's like okay this is getting serious. Do we move in together? You know and what does that look like? Do you come to my place? Do I come to yours? Do we buy a place? Like do you see there's always another level as part of the human experience for us to continue to expand and refine whatever it is that we're here to master. It's a mountain without a top. You can't make a mistake. You can't [ __ ] it up. You know, there's consequences. You know, like your business, I hope, is going to be great, but maybe it needs to adapt somehow, you know. But there's always this sense of newfound possibility to explore, you know, which at times can be overwhelming, but you're not not going to be okay. And that's what makes life so beautiful is because we go on this like unpredictable path that I could never have seen from a kid who was orphaned who was really quiet and shy, you know, and now I'm getting to the point of like, you know, TV shows, book deals, traveling to the Middle East, you know, AI pro, like there's so much more going on that can still at times feel a bit overwhelming. No different than the kid who didn't have any money and it's overwhelming because I'm on a date and I want to pay for it. same energy, completely different circumstances, you know. >> Yeah. Yeah. I I can really hear what you're saying. And there's also so much evidence in my past that I can like I've had so many experiences where >> things have like expanded or I've been like supported that yeah, there's only more evidence for the future that it will just be the same. Um >> yeah so what we want to be able to do is recognize what are the obstacles like again seek not for love but seek for the barriers we've built against them right so what it's always about removing what's in the way what's the fear it all comes down folks to fears and fear is always based on lies in this case the lie is you're not going to be okay see if you knew that you're going to meet someone in three weeks part of you might actually not be ready right? like [ __ ] like I kind of you know I want to get in a bit more shape or like I want to you know what whatever stories we have that so we say that we want something but if you know it's coming then you'll notice that your way of being in the you start to live differently you think differently you behave differently in anticipation of that that's the creative nature of what we're working on being creative most of the way that humans live is we're trying to get away from something right That's past defined. No bueno. That's the weakest way to live. Slightly more powerful is I'm trying to work towards something. Proactive, reactive, proactive. What we're working on is we're living from something which is the energy of who we are. We're living from freedom. We're living from love. We're living from abundance. We're living from power. Right? That's what you're starting to tap into. When you live from that, there's no I'm not going to be okay because I am the abundance I'm looking for. >> Yeah. It's all starting to I'm starting to feel it's like sinking in. I'm >> more and more embodying it and >> Yeah. >> Yeah. It's incredible. It's like really neat. >> It's it's it's the only game in town. It is incredible. That's why, you know, I love what I get to do because again, I've been doing it for so long and I know that from your perspective as viewers in this show, it looks effortless from my perspective. And, you know, don't don't get me wrong, I'm still, you know, at times a lot of things that I still continue to learn as a simulate and get better at, but I've been doing it for 25 years. So, it is second nature, right? And so, for you guys to give yourself permission to go, okay, yes, this is a three and a half month container. We've collectively had over 30 hours. You do your integration calls. You're doing your work. There's a lot you're putting into, but against a backdrop of three, four, five, six decades, it's not that much. You know, to continue the analogy, you go and meet this guy and you go to the driving range, maybe you get into it. You take four or five lessons. You're not you're not going to go and play on the PGA or the LPGA tour and compete, you know. So, we're working here on mastery, but with the compassion and forgiveness that you're also up against this conditioning of not wanting to make a mistake and the anxiety like that's deep. It's been there a while. So, that's where for all of you, I want you to have some compassion. This is why I want to keep building the community like why I built freedom, you know, that everyone can stay in this conversation to get the reinforcement because otherwise you go out into the world. The world's full of [ __ ] lunatics, you know, who are living from survival who want to make you wrong and blame you for their life and it's all 1.0. It's just, you know, you're like, "Oh my god, I feel amazing." Even with your friends, you're like, "Well, what happened? What did you do?" Like, "I did this mastermind. What does that mean?" You know, it's like you're already meeting resistance, you know? You know, and it's like, "What's this guy? What's his qualifications?" Okay, [ __ ] it. Back in 1.0. I'm going back to the next mastermind. this, you know, I want to be around people who get it, >> right? So, baby steps, you're doing great. I'm super proud. I'm so touched that, you know, through the conversations I've had with others that you've garnered your own freedom and your living and and just enjoy the journey. Like again, from the soul, uncertainty is pure possibility. And it takes practice, right? Awareness, practice. And we're sort of going between the two constantly. hopefully less awareness because you've realized and now it's just more practice living from 2.0. >> Yeah, thank you so much. And just a huge shout out to everyone um the community as well like so many of you. We've had so many beautiful conversations and the guides and the mentors as well. So yeah, I'm like so grateful. I can cry. >> Yeah. Thank you. I'm really excited for you and more so for the the people who are going to be fortunate enough to come into your practice. Oh, >> that really touches me. >> This is what I hope all of you take away for your lives, your loved ones, your professions is who do you get to be in the space of other people is what they're really looking for. You know, it's like that Maya Angelou quote, right? It it's like people won't remember what you did or what you're worth, but they'll always remember how they felt when they were around you. Yeah. Thank you so much, Peter. >> You're so welcome.