David Ghiyam teaches that every soul is destined to receive complete fulfillment — health, wisdom, prosperity, love — but the timing depends on transforming inner negativity rather than chasing outcomes. He offers the Kabbalistic mantra "pause, what a pleasure" as a real-time tool for treating people who trigger us as "dentists" pointing to what still needs healing.
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[Music] welcome everyone to the David G podcast this is episode8 and uh we'll do we'll do another short segment usually these are somewhere between 14 and 20 minutes I know we all have busy lives and I just want to bring for you the most impactful concept and energy of the week that we can take for ourselves to become more like the Creator the wisdom of cabala is explaining that our souls came to this world in order to receive all the beneficence of the Creator and what does that mean practically in our lives well there's several different buckets the bucket of Health the bucket of wisdom the bucket of wealth and prosperity knowing our purpose love relationships children friends that feeling of inner peace these are all different buckets of fulfillment that we're all looking for and it is our Birthright according to the wisdom of cabala that we will receive everything in our lifetime and in fact it says that even in one year a person will experience every test and challenge that their soul needs in order to receive all the Fulfillment that belongs to their soul so in the course of one year One calendar year 3 actually 55 days approximately according to the lunar calendar spiritually you will go through everything and anything you need to go through in order to reach your full Perfection now it's virtually impossible possible that we will actually pass every test and so every year the circle comes back and whatever correction we did not make in our soul we will experience in another shape or form so every test we're going through now every bit of lack that we have and fear that we have and challenge that we have and opposition that we have and failure that we have you may be experiencing pain right now in one way or another or some limitation or maybe you just frustrated maybe you're growing but you feel you should be growing in a different way in a bigger way maybe you have such big goals that even though may be relative to other people you're very successful but you're not where you feel you need to be so all of this is pain some form of pain and this is coming in order to awaken something inside of ourselves so that we transform create Affinity of form with the Creator's energy with this light with this Universal Force which removes darkness and once there's Affinity of form the darkness leaves so a person is single one day and the very next hour they could meet someone because the Creator will have told this person and made this person attracted to you because they are your soulmate now they were not attracted to you an hour prior because your Consciousness wasn't in the right place you hadn't made that transformation you hadn't broken that fear you hadn't cleansed that negativity and so this person who is your soulmate wasn't attracted to you yet in fact they walked past you every day and didn't even think twice about you I speaking to someone recently and she said she just doesn't even feel the need to look at this guy or look at that guy and and I've heard this from obviously both men and women you never even think about this person who's in your life twice but then one day you wake up and you look at them or all of a sudden you notice them or all of a sudden they notice you or all of a sudden you feel compelled to fly to some part of the world and you meet someone somebody was just telling me the story of how they met their husband of nine years that they're happily married to in the airport because he was lost and he couldn't find the right gate and she asked him are you lost are you looking for something something and he didn't understand the language of the airport and he say yeah I'm looking for Gates so and so and then they started talking and a year later they were married so the Creator arranged them meeting at the airport because that day or that week they had already shifted something in both of their consciousnesses in their energies to allow their souls to finally come together that's why it's called a soulmate because the the soul has to be shining in order for the souls to meet and the Soul doesn't shine when there are layers of negativity over the soul when you have bitterness in your heart when you have anger towards anything you could be angry at the political situation today just be angry at that right just imagine like it didn't go your way and you're angry for all the right reasons all the wrong reasons doesn't matter but that anger sits on your soul and it dims your soul and that means that if you're single looking to find your other half and all of a sudden you are now angry about political situation for example you will have to wait for more years before you meet your soulmate until maybe there's a new president and then you're happy and then that anger goes away temporarily and so your soul can shine again it sounds pretty crazy when I give this example but this is how it actually works so what if things don't go our way the question is what's your Consciousness what's your vibration what are your thoughts because we cannot suffocate our soul we have to allow our soul to shine and everything is a test so much so that if you didn't have anger issues people would not be compelled to make you angry I'll say that again because you have anger issues people feel compelled to make you angry to test you so your anger comes out so you can cleanse it if you were not angry if your soul didn't have anger everyone would act perfectly around you so it's our imperfections that are drawing people and forcing people to hurt us now this could be a very triggering statement but even if we're triggered by it I'm not here to you know we're not here to preach or take sides or to be virtuous or to say what's right or wrong we we're studying cabala because we just want to get to the goal the end result which is happiness and pleasure who car who cares if you're right or wrong if you're not happy and if you're not connected to the light of the Creator you're not going to be happy so if something is said that triggers you whether it's by me or anybody else it doesn't matter what was said the point is there's a trigger if you go to the dentist and the dentist is looking at your teeth and poking with that sharp metal you know that sharp metal like uh uh whatever that's called that little stick pointing at your poking at your teeth poking at your gums all of a sudden pokes at a tooth and it's painful ah it's painful well what has the dentist just discovered a potential cavity which then becomes a potential root canal so the dentist keeps poking at the tooth that hurts and says we need to work on this tooth now are you going to tell the dentist how dare you focus on my negativity why don't you just focus on all the good teeth why do you always have to find the tooth that is bad would you ever say that to your dentist would you ever say to your dentist that he's a narcissist because he's always focusing on your bad tooth or are you going to go home and send you YouTube clips about the five signs of a narcissist to your dentist because every time you go to his office he always talks about the one cavity you have as opposed to the 30 other beautiful teeth you have right are you going to go home to your friends and you're like you won't believe my narcissistic self-absorbed only sees the bad dentist you're never going to do that because you actually go to the dentist to be triggered to find the cavity so that you can heal the the cavity so that you don't have to lose the tooth but in life we have many dentists and these dentists are poking around our soul these dentists are your children they poke at your soul I know very clearly that if I'm in a needy mood if I'm needy and I need love and attention and I go to my daughter and I crouch down and I say princess come give me a hug she looks at me and if she smells neediness guess what she's going to do run the other way because the Creator told her to awaken my abandonment issues now I got to deal with see that my daughter is being a dentist right there everyone is programmed to be a dentist to your soul and the sooner we can realize that and not shoot the messenger just the realization and the acceptance and in cabala 1 class one which if you've never taken my master class take it it explains everything in chronological order about the soul it's cabala one.com and it's pay whatever you want you can pay whatever you want for it cabala 1 class one we have the Mantra pause what a pleasure pause what a pleasure my children are Tri triggering me my my boss is not acknowledging me or is overworking me my friends aren't being good friends my mother is being annoying I just don't feel good whatever it is pause what a pleasure what a pleasure that the Creator is giving me an opportunity now to remove the curtains over my soul so that I can shine so the light can come in and the Darkness can go away your job isn't to go find your soulmate that's not your job that's God's job why are you doing God's job your job isn't to go find your purpose everyone's like how do I find my purpose that's not your job you don't find your purpose the purpose is revealed to you when you do your job your job is the elevation of your Consciousness and the transformation of your negativity to allow your soul to become one with the Creator that's your job but there's a negative force in this world called the opponent it's like a negative Angel it's a negative Force the angels are very powerful in this world who wants us to always be busy doing God's job changing other people changing my situation going out there to find that thing that will make me happy no one's ever been happy from going out there to find something everything that will ever make you happy long term comes through the back door it's when you're not paying attention why there's actually many deep capitalistic secrets of why it coming through the back door you know many times people will say the the best things come when you're not looking that's a nice statement but cabala is about learning why like tell me why because when you're not paying attention it means your desire to receive for the self alone your ego is deactivated right what is paying attention paying attention means my desires are invested which means my selfishness is invested and so when you're not paying attention quote unquote your desires and your selfishness are deactivated and so you have Affinity of form with Miracles and that's why the miracle comes the reason people say sleep on it and then the answer comes is because when you sleep on it you're deactivating the needy side of you the doubtful side of you the anxious side of you you deactivate it because that's what that's what it means to sleep on it you're essentially transforming and letting go of the part of you that has no Affinity with the Creator and then by sleeping on it you get the answer so when you're not looking or not paying attention the Miracles come because there's a transformation of your negativity or at least a temporary pause in your negativity so what does that tell us we are in control we have the power to create anything at any moment in fact right now at this very moment you are creating new Destinies new realities these new circumstances you are determining whether your wedding date is in one week one month one year 10 years you're determining right now whether that first 100,000 you're supposed to make or that first million you're supposed to make will happen in one hour one week one month one year if it's meant for you it's going to come to you the question is and your free will is when and how those are the only two free wills we have either something's going to take a long time or it's going to happen quickly the second Free Will is either it's going to happen through pain and suffering or it's going to happen happen through Miracles the reason why cabal is so powerful is it inspires us to transform who we are so we can receive through the path of Miracles so we can receive through wisdom so we can receive through Divinity not receive through pain and suffering I know a lot of people and so do you and we might actually be these people who we suffer this torturous breakup and failure and crash for a year and then all of a sudden everything opens up and like amazing things happen right and you're like you're like oh yes you know through the greatest suffering comes the greatest Miracles yeah that's option two that's like the the circuit breaker that's the default system the Creator created because the Creator wants to give you everything and realize if you don't do it the proactive way well then you got to suffer and then you'll get the miracle and people are so proud of that people are like so proud I remember there a famous story that someone always said to my teacher Rob Berg he said this man came up to him and said I had the greatest miracle today so Rob ber said what was the miracle he said I was in this horrible car accident I mean you should have seen what happened to the car is total total and demolished and I came out with not even a scratch isn't that an incredible Miracle so my teacher looks at the student and smiles and said well let me tell you something I had an even greater miracle today said what was that he said I didn't even get into a car accident we are so fixated upon being that first person my car got total and oh my God I'm going to tell all my friends I didn't even break a bone that's life that's what you want your life to be hey guys I suffered greatly and look at this thing I got cuz I suffered so much that you you want an adab boy for that we have become accustomed to suffering and and and and falling and crashing and burning and then like some little good thing happens and we we we we like write a book about it the the the the fall and Rise of my life like that's my life here's my Memoir I suffered for 50 years and then this one thing happened which was I just became wise and spiritual for a moment that that's not life if we actually while things are great while we feel we don't even need to do it we actually focus on our transformation and the elevation of our Consciousness and the elevation of our certainty the elevation of our vibration and we let go of the bitterness and we let go of the sarcasm and we let go of the anger that we have towards whoever or whatever and we let go of the cheap being cheap just always looking for the sale always looking for the extra being Pennywise pound foolish I saved the dollar here yeah but you lost $100,000 there being cheap is the creator cheap stop being cheap buy things for people buy things for your friends buy things for your spouse spend more than you're used to so what stop being cheap go buy yourself something if you're cheap and you go buy something nice for yourself you'll make more money because you're transforming being cheap if that's your intention stop being cheap I don't know why I'm talking about being cheap some somebody needs to hear it letting go of the worrying about your kids and will they get married and will they be this way and will they be that way and worrying about if you have this disease or not or that so much things we worry about releasing all of this is the only thing we meant to do and if we do it proactively we will not need to be forced to do it from the outside we will not suffer suffering should not be our Norm this is the week that the energy comes down to show us that life doesn't have to be difficult life doesn't have to be uous life doesn't have to be 99% grind and 1% a break life doesn't have to the Creator is not cheap the Creator does not worry the Creator Creator does not have laziness the Creator is not blaming or upset with the economy the creator doesn't care about politics the Creator is just infinite light and if we want to be in that club called infinite light if we want to be in that club we have to become like the Creator so let it all go realize that everybody's a dentist realize that people are going to focus on the tooth with a cavity so they're going to hone in on that one part of you that's most insecure and bring it out and if you have abandonment issues you better believe you're going to track that man or woman who's emotionally unavailable you're going to and it's not a bad thing it's a wonderful thing and all your friends say oh he's toxic and she's toxic yeah no she's actually not toxic she's perfect for you he is not toxic he is perfect for you because he's bringing out your abandonment wounds I mean you want a perfect man that will it's like saying I want a dentist that doesn't look at my cavities no it's could you have this man or this woman that is driving you absolutely nuts I'm not saying you should stay that way saying you elevate yourself you transform your abandonment issue you transform your jealousy you transform your control issues you know what's going to happen to that man one of two things he will either transform and Elevate or he will disappear but if you try to get rid of him before you change he will be replaced by another different hair color different astrological sign a little bit more painful because you didn't learn the lesson the first time this is the week this is the week we can learn lessons that we were meant to learn in 20 years in one day in one moment you have the power to create whatever reality you want you can do it in one second there is no time space or Motion in the Creator and therefore there's no time space or Motion in your life