Anita Moorjani on Connection With the Other Side

foreign hi there so last week when I did the live video I did a q a where you guys were able to ask me questions so I may take a couple of questions later too but there was one question which we ended on or we finished on this question which I thought was such a great question and somebody asked me what was it about your nde that impacted you the most that you still remember or still helps you to this day I'm paraphrasing I probably haven't got it quite exactly right but that's basically the meaning I took from it like what impacted me the most which still helps me till today and so and that at that time when I was asked it last week I said oh my gosh so many things I can't even pick one and so during the week that question still stayed on my mind because I started thinking what else what else and really if I had to boil it down I would say there are two things that impact me the most that affect me and helped me till today till now and number one is the knowing without a doubt of my connection with the other side and and how the other side guides me and helps me that made a huge difference on my life just knowing how loved I am by my deceased loved ones by my guides um by Source energy like just that and just knowing that without a doubt that I just have to be me I don't have to prove myself in order to earn the love of the other side that is something that has really changed the way I view death um it's changed the way I view life it's just changed so much about about generally of how I operate in this world now even though I say it's changed the way I operate in this world I still have a lot of human traits because I still came back as human and so of course there are times when I'm going to feel either sensitive to things or hurt by things or run down or drained or get depleted and and so on so that's still going to happen as a as a human but but um but the thing that never leaves me is this knowing that I'm connected and I always have this connection and that they're helping me and guiding me all the time and so I always know that I have to listen out for this connection and tune in and stop the noise from this outside world to listen in and I've spoken in recent months quite a lot about the fact that I did burn out early last year I was completely depleted um completely crashed but what kept me going even though my physical body was so tired it was tired because I had overdone it I had done too much for the world and for other people and again once again neglecting myself and that's my human side that gets in the way I get in my own way um but it was my connection with the other side that got me out of it and the other side are trying to are trying to communicate with us all the time and the way to listen to the other side and to hear them is by lowering the sound or the noise over that comes from this physical world in other words I have to remove myself from all the noise from let's say mainstream media social media and what advice even advice people are giving me until I feel the connection now there are people who will give you advice and a lot of it can be spot on but a lot of some of it isn't how do you tell the difference the difference is how it makes you feel so the first thing to do though is to establish your connection with the other side so that's number one is to establish and know I am always connected the second thing is to then take some time alone and to feel it to know that I am always connected go out in nature meditate listen to music whatever it is that makes you feel more connected to the energies and the universe in a grander scale um and then it's your knowing and your awareness that you are connected that will what happens is that now if you go out into the world and listen to other people you're in a different energy space so the idea is to get you into this more expanded energy space so that what you are meant to attract comes to you when you're in a really depleted energy space that's when um you can't tell the messages that are supposed to be for you are not for you when you're drained and depleted your energy is so thin and so low that you're attracting all kinds of things even things that don't serve you but when you expand your energy then what happens is that your energy is attracting what matches it and so even the advice you attract from the people who you are attracting from this energy space will will be what you are meant to hear everything changes when you sh when you change your energy and so this is this goes back to exactly what I learned when I was on the other side knowing that I am connected knowing that they're talking to me and guiding me all the time it raises my energy and they help me the my guides on the other side my deceased loved ones they help me by dropping thoughts into my head and I hear those thoughts when I quiet my mind when I turn down the dial of the noise of this side so that's what helped me out during my most difficult times sometimes people say to me but you had an nde how come how come you still struggled and you learn not to be a people pleaser so here's the thing I know not to be a people pleaser but I was not conditioned or socialized to be out in the public Arena and deal with so many people this is still fairly new to me I mean the first 40 50 years of my life were spent being conditioned to live a small life and then suddenly you get thrust into this life where it's like you're not here to play small and you know the other side is telling you that you're not you didn't come die and come back to play small but nobody gave me an instruction book on how to play bigger so I had to learn as I went but even though I don't have an instruction book I do get the guidance from the other side and that's something we all have access to and that's what I wanted you to know um the the second thing that I that really impacted me was the fact that I survived something that I wasn't supposed to and that made me feel invincible I it was just the knowing gosh oh Alexa can't get okay so Instagram is back apparently okay that's good to know so let's check and Facebook is back all right so I will backtrack a little bit the second thing that really impacted me from my near-death experience is the fact that I survived something that was supposed to kill me just looking at it experiencing it coming through it made me feel wow that was supposed to kill me that should have that it really should have killed me and and it would kill most other people who have it and the doctors saying that I should be dead just that knowledge or alone was really really impactful for me and it made me feel Invincible it made me feel that I'm here for a bigger reason that I may not understand yet it made me really believe that I was guided now I don't think I'm special I think everyone has that ability but again we are not conditioned or socialized to believe this so one of the reasons I share what I share is so that other people can know that they have this that they have access to this and if I knew what I know and how if I knew it then I don't think I would have even got sick I don't think I would have had to go through what I went through and so this is why I'm driven to do what I do and why I share everything I share and so not only do I share it online with you and I'm going to go into questions in a minute but I just wanted to also say that even when I do live events physical events this is what drives me it's to create an environment where you can experience this and embody this this feeling of connection with the other side this feeling of invincibility because when you feel connected there is a certain invincibility Abby I'd love for you to take a look to see if we have any questions I'm not saying anything so far but if we if anyone wants to put something in chat now is the time okay so I'll just keep going on this just for a couple more minutes then so one of the things that um I believe is that when we understand this when you understand it it's not a matter of understanding it from your mind it is really understanding it from a heart space so that you actually embody it so what do I mean by embodying it when you embody something it actually shows in your energy it expands your energy and energy is energy a lot of people believe that in in so I'm just going to give you an example A lot of people that believe that we have believe we have to be a certain way in order to be spiritual that's actually not true we are all spiritual regardless of how we are we all come from Spirit and we return to Spirit even if you do nothing you're still spiritual however for me the idea isn't about trying to be more spiritual which is what I used to do before my near-death experience I was always working at being more spiritual the idea I realized after my near-death experience is the idea is to expand your energy forget about what's being spiritual what's not it's not about meditating more praying more doing more good works and and doing creating Good Karma so what I learned was that I don't have to think about any of that all I have to do is do whatever it takes to expand my energy and energy expanded energy is expanded energy so some people think that oh it's better if you meditate that creates a better energy but if but what I'm saying is if sitting on the beach watching a sunset eating an ice cream expands your energy or going out with a bunch of friends and laughing and laughing and having a really good time expands your energy that is still achieving the same thing expanded energy is expanded energy and so the idea is to expand your energy and the longer that you're in a state of expanded energy the more healing you experience in your body the more connected you are with the other realm the easier it is for our loved ones on the other side to communicate with us and expanded energy is about embodiment of the truth so many of us we think of ourselves as teachers but I don't like to think of myself as a teacher I'd rather think of myself as an embodiment of what I believe so strive to be an embodiment instead of a teacher because as an embodiment of what you believe or an embodiment of expanded energy people experience you just by being near you you don't have to actually teach them and I've heard a saying that goes something along the lines of we teach what we most need to learn but if you're an embodiment it means you already are it you don't need to learn it you don't need to teach it but just your very being inspires others to be like you I would love to invite you to join my events and my Retreats and I'm doing this amazing Cruise towards the end of the year in November I'm doing a cruise that I'm super excited about and it's called journeying Beyond the Veil where I will speak more about exactly this I'll go deeper into how to connect with our loved ones how to receive messages from them how to know that they're always with us how to expand our energy we'll be in an environment where our energy will be expanded because I love cruises because everything is taken care of for you your meals your accommodation all of it you get pampered and of course that's going to contribute to expanding your energy but there's a real treat waiting for you on the cruise I've invited my dear friend John Holland who's a psychic to join us and he's going to do readings mediumship so he's a psychic medium please check him out he's actually amazing he blows my mind whenever he does readings and so together we're going to actually take you on a journey Beyond the Veil and because we're going to be out in the open Seas out in the ocean in the magic of the ocean which is my favorite thing I love the water I love the ocean um I feel the energies are so much more so much more lighter thinner and expanded when I'm by the ocean that I think that we're gonna have some great connections with the other side um we're going to connect with our deceased loved ones but we're also going to learn how to live from this place of being connected and being guided and we're going to learn what the signs are and how how our how the other side communicates with us so it promises to be a really great time I know I'm looking forward to it and uh because I love cruises and and also because they're easy they're super easy because when you're on a cruise you're already on a high Vibe and then in from this high Vibe space we're gonna journey into learning so much together in a group of like-minded people so I hope you'll be able to join me and I'm going to ask Abby again if there's any more final questions or final thoughts before I so this is actually quite interesting right after we said you know put your questions in the chat there were a and this is the theme of a lot of the questions that are coming in the first one that came in was I'm afraid of death what do I do to get over my fear and then it was I had breast cancer how do I get over my fear of it not returning and then it's a lot of people asking about fear on different levels like someone saying do you believe in evil energies and so it's I'm just getting a lot of fear from the people in chat right now so is there a generic answer you can give for like how to deal with fear how to deal with anxiety I mean that's so big I'm sorry I'm sorry it's okay but it's what people are asking so you don't need to apologize so if you can get just anyone who is tuning in we will be posting this video on YouTube so you will get the whole thing hopefully uh if you missed anything you can go back and re-watch it but you should be back live now all right yes so we will be posting this so don't worry if you missed anything um so fear seems to be what drives our dominant culture so I'm actually gonna say a couple of things about it but I know I'll expand on it next week number one fear the the fear that you are experiencing the fear of death the fear of cancer the fear of poverty or whatever it is the fear it's part of the illusion of this life and why I say illusion is because you have been conditioned to live and make your choices from a place of fear it's not real we have the choice to choose from a place of love our job your job your mission my mission is to embody love in this fear-based world and that's how we're going to change it the reason you feel fearful is because everybody around you is fearful and that's the energy you're absorbing you're absorbing it from everyone around you because that is what you are being told that's the narrative that's the dominant narrative that's being shared in our um in in our mainstream media we are constantly being bombarded with fear-based messages all our advertisements and advertising you are told you need to get this do this from a place of fear because if you don't do it either you will get sick or you will die or you won't be good enough or you you will get poor so all fear-based narratives same in the medical system fear-based narratives if you don't do this you'll get cancer again blah blah blah and even in the education The Narrative is you've got to get ahead of everyone else to get ahead or you won't get a place so you won't get a job so anyway we are bombarded with a fear-based narrative that's why you are all fear feeling fear and that is the illusion the world does not have to be fearful it feels fearful because that's what you're being told many religions tell us fear-based stories about the afterlife I'm here to tell you that that's not true I'm here to tell you that all fear-based messages are not necessarily true and you have a choice when you realize that you are something so much more when you realize you are much more powerful than you have been led to believe then you can choose you can make your choices from a place of love you have not come here to live in fear you've come here to live from a place of expansion and joy and love and all of these things so please figure out what your passion is and that will help you to get healthier and well and expand your energy more next week thank you so much for tuning in I'm looking forward to seeing you next week hope to see you at one of my events I've got one in June in Scottsdale and I've got the cruise in November join me my live events are a lot of fun we have a lot of high Vibe energy can't wait to see you soon bye thank you foreign